1) What was the last fantasy you thought about while masturbating?
Sometimes I do not think of a specific person while masturbating rather I enjoy the feelings I am experiencing. but the physical feelings I am experiencing in the moment. If there are toys involved, prostate massager or butt-plug or dildo, I will mentally place myself in a state wishing I could share this moment with anyone and everyone who would get enjoyment from seeing me wrestle myself from orgasm and maintain self-control.
2) Do you think about fantasies while playing with your partner?
This answer is going to seem like a cop-out, but I feel I have been lucky that the lifestyles I participate, swinging and BDSM, has all the fantasies I need.
3) If the sex isn’t that great do you find your mind wanders? If yes, to what?
I have never found my mind wander, even if we are not clicking perfectly, it just makes me try harder to bring the pleasure back.
4) Have you ever thought about a previous partner while with another?
It would be a lie if I said it never happened.
5) What is the biggest turn-off thought that has barged into your head at the wrong moment?
Here is another cop-out, my mind is blank on this one